You are a man with great vision when it comes to the pleasure of a shared sex life. If and when you actually experience this style of living, you will enjoy the satisfaction of achieving what many husbands have already realized.
I couldn't agree more because the act of exchanging a passionate kiss as an orgasm subsides seems natural and I have done it many times with women who were not my wife. It sort of says to the woman, “Thanks so much, you were great”.
If a man is going to have sexual relations with a woman, he owes her the tribute of carressing her body and providing foreplay that heightens the erotic pleasure of intercourse. I cannot imagine "making love" without fondling a woman's breasts and sucking her nipples before and during vaginal penetration.
Once another man's cock and his cum has entered a wife's pussy, she is no longer a wife but a companion. There is nothing wrong with that as long as there is a mutual agreement to share sex lives. Intercourse is such an act of pleasure that monogamy is overrated. Ask any wife who is sharing her pussy and she will tell you that she has never regretted putting out for pleasure. Variety is the spice of life, or so they say.